Changing the position in which you give or receive your blowjob can drastically alter the pleasure both partners experience. It’s a great way to tease and build up arousal, or turn things on really quickly.
A big part of what makes oral sex so hot for him is seeing and touching your body in all its curves and glory. This is a lot easier to do in some of these blowjob positions.
1. The Sit On My Face Position
This saucy take on face sitting is a great way to add more pressure and speed for those who like it spicy. It also allows the giver to elongate their neck for an intense orgasm.
Another advantage of this oral sex position is the ability to straddle the face for deeper penetration and arousal. It also puts a subtle, yet powerful dynamic of power play between partners, which is sexy in its own right.
If you’re unsure how to go about the face sitting position, you can ease into it by incorporating other stand-up positions first. For instance, you could try the 69 position (where both partners give and receive oral) or the shoulder-stand oral sex position. The latter of these is a bit easier for the receiver because they don’t have to rely on their hands to balance. The only drawback of this position is that it may not be suitable for those with longer torsos. It’s still worth a shot, though. It’s a great way to build up to the more challenging face sitting position.
2. The 69 Position
If you’re looking to spice things up by giving and receiving oral sex at the same time, this is the position for you. Known as the 69 position, this is one of the best blowjob positions for both partners and can lead to some serious mutual orgasms. The receiver can straddle the giver’s face and get an ultra-arousing view of their naughty bits, while the giver gets to go crazy with classic deep throating action.
The 69 position can be a bit tricky for partners with a big height difference. To remedy this, you can use a stack of pillows or blankets to help you contort your body so you can reach each other’s genitals with ease.
You can also try the sideways 69 position, which works in the same way but allows you to lie on your back instead of being on top of each other. This can be more comfortable, especially if you’re working up to the full 69 position, or if you want to transition into the broken eagle position from here.
3. The Sit On My Back Position
This oral sex position is ideal for those with an adventurous orgasm potential. It’s also one of the best foreplay techniques, as it allows the receiver to thrust their hips at different speeds and intensities. “This is a good position for those who have a sensitive gag reflex, as the giver can be very careful about how deep they push into the throat,” Munro says.
This sexy boob position is an awesome option for giving oral sex without having to get down on the ground. The giver can place a few pillows (depending on comfort levels) under their back and lean over to place their mouth over the receiver’s neck. They can also use their hands to massage and tease the vulva and penis.
There’s nothing hotter than having a man massage your penis with their lips and then suck it into your mouth for ultimate pleasure. This standing sex position works well with the Corkscrew position and can also work with other types of mouth penetration toys. It’s also a great option for giving oral sex to someone with a larger d*ck.
4. The Kneeling Position
When it comes to oral sex positions, you can’t go wrong with this classic. As the name suggests, this position involves the giver kneeling down in front of their partner to offer oral stimulation, while the receiver lies on their back and rests their head against their giver’s thighs. For added pleasure, the giver can use their hands to touch and explore their partner’s thighs and chest while they tease their nipples and anus with their lips.
This oral sex position is another one that can be used to enhance the experience of the 69 position and is also ideal for those who have sensitive clitorises. Like the 69, it allows the giver to suck the receiver’s lips and throat and is perfect for giving a humping pit stop during penetration.
This is another oral sex position that offers an added element of sexual play and arousal that can be especially hot for those who have an A+ blow job. The sexy standing version of the cunnilingus position, it leverages a subtle power dynamic and adds extra sexual excitement for those who want to feel the sensation of dominance.
5. The Sideways 69 Position
The Sideways 69 Position is the best sex position for blowjob because it allows both partners to give and receive oral sex without one person being on top or bottom. It also allows the giver to access the receiver’s anus, which is a big turn-on for many people. This is a great position for giving deep throating and can be even more intense with the use of a vibrator.
The 69 Position is an ideal oral sex position for women with bigger breasts because it allows the giver to access her vulva and anus without having to tilt their head. This position can also be great for clit stim and grinding and it’s an excellent choice for beginners because it’s less likely to cause neck strain.
Another excellent option is the Love Triangle oral sex position, which involves the man kneeling between the woman’s legs and the woman sitting on the couch with her feet locked behind his shoulders. This position can be very intense and it’s a great way to turn up the heat and explore new power dynamics.
